How To Buy Lingerie for your girlfriend or wife: A Men’s Guide
The Ultimate Guide to Buying Lingerie For Men
(This Post was originally published on November 5th 2019 and updated on November 8th 2021)
Buying lingerie for your girlfriend or wife can be a daunting task. It's already challenging to select underwear for yourself, let alone find something that your partner will love. However, don't let that discourage you from showing your affection through lingerie. Your significant other will undoubtedly appreciate the thought and effort you put into choosing something special for her.
Lingerie is a fashion accessory that enhances and beautifies the female form. While the word "lingerie" comes from the French word "linge," meaning linen, its purpose has evolved into supporting and celebrating the female figure. In this guide, we've got you covered with tips on selecting the perfect lingerie gift for your girlfriend or wife.
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Tip 1 - Know Her Size
The first step in buying lingerie for your girlfriend or wife is knowing her size. This is her bra and briefs size. This way, you can make sure that not only dos she look beautiful wearing the lingerie you have bought for her, that it fits her perfectly. Be aware that there are different sizes of lingerie available in the market, so, before you proceed with any purchase, take a subtle peek in her lingerie drawer if you have access, or If this is an impossible task, the most common sizes are S, M, L and XL.
If you can't handle the guess work, just ask, your partner will be impressed that you're interested, earning you brownie points on the way. Whatever you do, don’t worry, If it's the wrong size, keep the receipt, as you can always change it.
Tip 2: Choose The Right Colour
Our next tip should be a breeze - choosing the right colour. When you think about buying lingerie, try to keep in mind if your partner prefers bright colours or neutral tones, whether she likes floral prints or patterns. There are so many colours available and this can be confusing to the untamed eye. However, if you know how to choose the right colour, then this task becomes much easier.
Again, if you didn't determine her colour at stage one, just ask. It's that easy, and buy accordingly!
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Tip 3: Determine Her Style
Choosing the right lingerie for your girlfriend or wife is an important task. It's essential to understand the style of lingerie that fits her personality and unique identity, rather than your personal preference. Lingerie is an intimate and personal piece of apparel for women, and it's crucial to keep that in mind. So, take some time to consider your partner's style, personality, and preferences. Tips one and two should give you an idea of her style, but if you're still unsure, consider her personality traits. Is she romantic and sweet, sexy and daring, sophisticated and classy, or classic and chic? This knowledge will help you choose the perfect lingerie set that she will love and appreciate.
There are a variety of lingerie styles and lingerie types so:
Does your partner like cotton, lace or silk lingerie? Again, ask or find out.
What type of briefs does she prefer: French knickers, boxers, classic briefs, thongs? Take a look at our article A to Z of lingerie shapes Part 1 - Briefs, to give you an idea.
Do you know the bra style she likes? Again, to assist, have a look at our article A to Z of lingerie shapes Part 2 - Bras.
There are a variety of lingerie to choose from, so once you've determined this, it will be easy for you to choose the right set.
Tip 4: Time To Shop
After completing the first three tips, it's time to venture into the lingerie store. Don't worry, lingerie customer assistants are there to help and guide you. You've come prepared, so relax and ask for their assistance. Don't be afraid to share the information you have, and ask if they have anything that meets your preferences. Remember, shopping for lingerie should be a fun experience, so enjoy the process.
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Conclusion
It's important to keep in mind that lingerie is a gift for someone special, so it's crucial to choose something your partner will love. Whether it's a bra or a pair of underwear, lingerie can ignite a spark in your relationship and demonstrate how much you care. Take the time to select something that makes your girlfriend or wife feel beautiful and comfortable. If you need more guidance on buying lingerie, feel free to leave a comment, as we're always here to assist you.
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